When Love is Another Reason
Have you ever noticed when the female stars fall in love?
With whom those girls are dating?
Most of their couples are from high society families with well known surnames and good financial status. Some of them are the businessmen and some are the heirs of big companies’ top executives. Though the appearances of those guys are not well built enough, there is nothing wrong to get along with.
It seems to be a basic principle for Thai female star to consider the social and economic status first, when she starts relationship with a guy. Base on this rule, it doesn’t sound strange when a
female star, who is very beautiful young and popular among Thai fans, gets along and has a date with the guy from high society family. What a perfect match making!
Dating with a popular female star is also the standard or formula for a guy who is from high society families with well known surnames and good financial status. The guy, who has more opportunity than others working as salary men, prefers to search for a popular actress than goes out with general beautiful girl. The reason is to fulfill his status suitably.
With the monetary power, Thai entertainment circle looks like a female stars shopping center for those guys to select and have a date with, and get married at the end if the couple can get along well.
This matter is going to tell us that people are already grouped by the social and financial status in couple making (general guy with normal girl and perfect guy with super girl). It is difficult and unacceptable to break that rule.
This situation is also teaching us that some guys select their couples based on their feelings more than reason and addicted to beauty when some girls consider the reason especially reason in their social and financial stability more than their feelings. How bout your own opinoin? Do you have any idea?------ > SUWINAI (NAI /ECH)
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It's true!It has become a pattern of matching a couple for a while not only among super stars but also common people like us. It seems to be a regulation in our minds to think that way. According to this present time money is the main aspect having a perfect life and it can buy almost everything to serve our demanding; facilities, housing, foods and so on. Moreover it represents social status of each one and of course everyone needs to be in the first roll in society. So making decision to select someone being a sweet heart should consider with many other aspects include social status. Appearance is another aspect that is also concerned with. It's common thing for people prefer beauty as the main reason. I'm sure 99.99% women look at men and men look at women at a face first. It means that it's the fact that we can't avoid. Well... I don't pay too much attention about superstars' couple. It's nonsense to know that much. What we've seen might be true or not. It probably likes a soap opera or fake. Who knows? Because media influences everything and we have no chance to prove what's the truth. Thus I'm happy to see superstars met a perfect love story. In opposite way If their love story isn't good, just let it be.
What is ‘love’ means today? For them, the stars, what does it means to be in love? For the high-society men, what does a female star have to do with their love? If I look in an optimistic way, I would say that they rely on each other. The couples support each other by their social status. The first thing is they have gained more reputation which is good for someone like them. The second thing is to ensure the financial security for the females star (If they married). Well… may be just want to make sure that the female stars won’t have a hard time spending the money. To be a star means they have a better chance finding their spouse. They can select who seems to suitable for them. But again, my question is, which part of the high –so man that impresses them.
If the answer is money, this will fall in the same case as “Anna Nicole Smith”. Should not be that terrible but still it’s bad. Money alone can’t bind people together. True love doesn’t come from the money. Time will tell whether they can be together or not. Money can not buy everything – That is an axiom.
Whether the people in the pictures are super stars or not , I feel that they are the ones who have long been keeping trying to promote themselves and make general public know what they have done, where they have been to and whom they have fallen in love with. It seems embarrassing for me to see their fickle minds that easily and unexpectedly change all the time. I cannot deny that the people who are from well-to-do families have lots of opportunities to choose the ones they love, but it should be noted here that the term “ sustainable love” cannot be found in their lives. To put it bluntly , most of the super stars ,in my humble point of view, both female and male are man eaters and womanizers respectively. I’m not jealous of their well known lives. Instead I feel sorry for them that they weren’t born to be but were born to show off. Undoubtedly, deep down in their heart they desperately want to be unknown and ordinary people.
(Somchai Thamuang )
"Love" is a word which is hard to identify. What does it mean is upon the "TWO". Yep, I'm agree that it is a kind of fashion in the stars' society. But one thing we could not overlook is the natural characteristics of their career. Definitely, there are plenty of opportunities for them to meet well-known and wealthy people which we; the "ORDINARY" couldn't have. So, it is very common for a star to have a high society boyfriend/girlfriend. It's their chance. Some of you might argue that some female stars always consider about family and financil status when they would like to have some special. Usually when we are going to get to know someone, we might have some fellings toward that person which could be strenghtened the relationship later or turned upside down. I believe that everyone must have good points which are different from others. What important is we don't have a chance to know until we have a chance to know them. Even though some high class people don't have a good looking, they must have something that attract the female stars-not only money. From our point of view, we may think that they might not have a true love but there must be at least a pair who are soulmate. It is better not to judge them only through our eyes.
Hello my sweet fellows, well do you mean it’s becoming usual in Thai society nowadays that the pretty girls who are known as ‘stars’ are having a perfect romance with the boys of ‘hi-so’ and well off families?. Who are dating with whom? Yard and Oak, Noon and Tod also Tata and Prem? You are right they are making talk of the town, especially on the celluloid world. But my though is that Oak is dating with Yard, Tod with Noon, anyway for Tata and Prem the case is different because Tata, as we know, she ‘goes inter’ already. My clarification for what I stated is that the girls didn’t pick the boy. But they were picked by the boys. Let’s see this, was it Oak who dumped Ann Alicha and turned to Yard? Was it Noon who dumped Ket Tarntap and turned to Tod because Ket is just a charming boy star who has less fortune then Tod who is the heir of ‘Singha’ family. My point is that it is shameful for these women to be on a list of selection of those wealthy boys. We cannot argue that even in Thai context we have a saying which goes ‘Rue Lom Ni Nong, Thong Ja Pai Nai’- if a boat carrying gold bars sinks the gold bars will sink into the pond undoubtedly. This is what I think the girl stars are expecting. However, if they were reading this post I am sure they would say this to me, “Hey bitchy, are you jealous on me?. Look at yourself in the mirror and get lost” Their argument would be that this is a matter of ‘the Wheel of Opportunity’ just quickly grab it otherwise it will fly away. I think perhaps the girls already knew that this opportunity definitely flies away soon so now they are just digging as much gold as possible. BAD I, am I calling them Gold Diggers? Sorry if I am. Well, it will be fair to talk to the boys too. There is another saying I am sure we often hear, ‘Taa Tam’ – low eyes, meaning lacking of selecting taste. This is particularly used when a person selects an inferior partner and should be blamed of the stupid decision. I think the boys don’t want to be seen ‘Tar Tam’ so their selection ends up at the beautiful movie stars whom they don’t care whether the girls is valued enough to be a mother of their kids or not because now the girls are on the front page and they are so eye catching. On top of that, the boys think they must be jealous by all boys on this planet. Don’t you think it is a matter of ‘the Perfect Demand and Supply’ Tata is different. She is not my favorite and I am not taking her side but I like the way she told every body about her relationship with a boy of a rich boxing promoter. This is what I call ‘Honoring the Other One’ I don’t think they are using each other for their own sake. It is great to have someone to share and care. There is noting wrong at all for this. You are good luck. Now stop saying ‘Ah! We are just friends. We are just brother and sister. We just bump into each other quite often. BUT we sleep in the same bed. Please stop lying. If we cannot stop our children from dating at early age and maybe cannot hold them for having sexual relationship when they are still young, teach them to have safe sex. Virginity is still the optimal female pride for me but see first how many ours girls spending their time in front of the machine searching whatever they cannot find the answers from their parents especially the matter about sex. And for those star you are on the media everywhere and the kids adore you. Please behave in a good way. Don’t commit a sin on those children. You might say “I don’t know. I didn’t mean it. It is none of my business”. Think for a second for your position in the next 30 years when you are wrinkled and you are called auntie. You have 5 nieces and you see they are watching a beautiful girl star on screen. She is holding her hand with a P.M.’son and walking into a sparking party and she is saying “We are just friends”. Then your kids look at you and say “Auntie, she is lying, B****!” Would you say anything to the kids? Well, my concern now is about ‘Kob Suwanan’ Does her well-off mother-in-law to-be accept her yet? Cause from the media, her pretty son who graduated from a university in the US. and is expected to have a bright future in politics has to ask permission from her before making a big decision in life. Without question, from her behaviour when she is with him she always mentions their strong relationship and asks him to announce their special day but what he keeps saying tells people that he hasn’t been thinking of it yet. Maybe his mother always tells him not to be ‘Tar Tam’, the girl’s popularity can help him gain million of votes from the next election. Or maybe this is his own thought. Good luck girls.
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